The Little Things We Worry About
When you’re planning your wedding, it’s natural to want everything just right. From the dress fittings to the seating charts, the Pinterest boards, and endless to-do lists — there’s a sense that every detail must go perfectly. And we get it — we’ve been there too.
But here’s the gentle truth we’ve come to realise, not only from planning our own wedding but from witnessing many beautiful days through our lens: the things we spend time worrying about often fade into the background. No one remembers if the flowers were a shade too pale or if the canapés were five minutes late. The pressure we feel? It’s often just a sign of how much we care — but it isn’t the part that truly matters.
Real happiness has a way of sneaking up on you. It’s not something you can schedule or rehearse. It shows up in the little things — the glance your partner gives you before you walk down the aisle, the spontaneous hug from your mum, or that burst of laughter during the speeches.
These are the moments where real life and real love show through — and they’re often the ones couples tell us they remember most. They’re not perfectly posed or meticulously planned. They’re raw, real, and full of heart. These moments are the ones we quietly look out for, the ones we love to capture because they hold the soul of your day.
Happiness cannot be traveled to, owned, earned, worn or consumed. It is the spiritual.
At its heart, a wedding isn’t really about perfection — it’s about connection. It’s not about timelines and trends, but about people and presence. True happiness comes not from everything going ‘to plan’, but from letting go, being fully present, and soaking in every emotion as it comes.
Years from now, you won’t be replaying the checklist. You’ll remember the way it felt — the joy, the tears, the laughter, the love that wrapped around you like a warm breeze. That’s the real magic. That’s the story we want to tell with our photography — the story of you, just as you are, surrounded by the people who love you most.
And that’s what stays with you forever.
